Why your boyfriend or the guy you are dating is trying to make you jealous? How to behave if your partner is trying to make you jealous on purpose? What is the best reaction that could benefit you? Love Tips! Watch the full video for detailed explanation.
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Hey guy's it's ladies relationship coach here and today I'm going to talk about, what to do when your guy is trying to make you jealous? So the reason he is doing it, is basically to test you, to push your boundaries, to see how you stand your ground. So let's say for example you are going out with your bf or your date and he starts flirting to a girl for more than 15 mins or he slaps another girls ass in front of your face, or he is hugging your friend for to long. Basically what he is trying to do is, he is trying to make you jealous. If he was interested in the other girl or he was planing to cheat he would do it behind your back, he would not do it in front of your face, there is no point for that. So what he is doing? He is trying to get reaction out of you and he is testing you to see how you are going to respond. Are you gonna go crazy? Are you gonna get upset? Are you gonna get jealous? Are you gonna stand your ground? What most of girls would do if they care about the guy or they love the guy, they would get upset, or they would confront him, or they would go crazy, or they would say like 'oh you really upsetting me and i feel hurt'. What? You don't like me anymore? Do you like another girl more? The girls would get insecure, and they would show it to the guy or you could see it from their faces. What happens? What the guy gets? Is, he gets reassurance that you love him, that you care about him, that you really like him and basically that he is doing the "right thing" because what happens is, he is trying to make you jealous and he is getting the reaction for it. It's like for him getting reaction like this from you it's like you just gave him a bucket of flowers! Even if it's a bad reaction or bad attention, they still love it, they still know it that they got you exactly where they want you. What you have to do?! Is give him no reaction whatsoever! Get on your phone, call a friend, talk to your other friend, go to the ladies room, get yourself busy, completely ignore it with a smile on your face :) Pretend that you completely don't care! What's going to happen next? He's gonna be like what? I'm really like working my ass out trying to make this girl jealous and she completely doesn't care about it?! What does she not love me? Does she not care about me? Is she not interested anymore? Why is she not feeling hurt? Why is she not getting jealous? She doesn't like me anymore? I need to do something about it! I need to look after her more. I need to chase her more. I need to give her more. I need to step up my game, because she obviously is stopping to care about me. And this is where you want to keep your guy! For a man to want you, to chase you, you need to keep him on his toes. For a man to cherish you to look after you and to care of you, you need to keep him on his toes. You can not give him all the power. Love is a power game. When you keep him on his toes, what happens is, you go from the normal girl to the dream girl in his eyes. He will want to chase you, he will want to give you more. He's not gonna be thinking like oh whatever i will do she's just gonna be there anyway. NO! That's not what to do! Ok.. So when he is trying to make you jealous take it as a compliment! Think like this, he really cares about me, he wants some attention, he wants some reaction from me. I'm not going to give him any ;) But i will take it as a compliment :) Because he is really trying really hard to make me jealous and no it's not gonna work! I'm going to turn it around for my own benefit :p Be clever ;) Ok so that is it, this is what to do when the guy is trying to make you jealous.. Give no reaction what so ever !