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Boom! Stop. I'm David Tian, PhD. And in this video, I discuss: why do you feel so jealous about her sexual history? Welcome to Man Up Episode 156.
Masculinity for the intelligent man. I'm David Tian, PhD, and this is Man Up!
Hi! I'm David Tian, PhD. And for over the past ten years, I've been helping hundreds of thousands of people in over 87 countries attain success, happiness and fulfillment in life and love, and here I am in Bangkok and just walking out from the Luxury Collection Hotel here. And it's really cool, because it's actually connected directly through the Sky Bridge to the BTS. So, just swinging around, you can see - I mentioned in an earlier episode how all of Bangkok... Well, not all, but a big part of Bangkok in this area, from Sukhumvit, down a couple stations that way and then starting up again about two stations over, starting from there and going about four stations, they're all connected by these Sky Bridges. Well, it's not bridges, it's like sky platforms. I forget the exact term of it.
And then up above there, you can see it's called the BTS or above-ground subway here. So, it's pretty cool. Very comfortable living here, and this particular hotel connects right through to the subway. So, you can see the platform, I just walked all the way out. Very convenient. Anyway, this is not a hotel review, but I just wanted to show you that.
And I'm going to show you the rush hour traffic here. One thing about Bangkok and Jakarta is the horrible traffic. This is, what? Like 5:30pm, so it's not even that bad yet. But everyone who has been out here know I'm talking about the horrible traffic. There you go, here are some more. Alright, so I'm going to go to a quieter area over here.
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I just found out that my woman right now has a past relationship with my officemate that has a live-in partner and have 2 kids for 6 months. How do u overcome that? Her reasoning is that she was weak and she was pursuaded with the flowery words of the guy.
I just can’t comprehend another man being in the lady that I love it makes my knees weak!
How come I don’t have a have any experience and she does.
What’s your advice on that?
I really want to be her first
Sasykin S you just have to accept the fact that it happened, it's in the past, and it's YOUR fault for being jealous of her past. Not her fault. You may be feeling emotions of anger, fear, disgust, sadness, and jealousy. And don't worry man, you are not the first guy to be going through this and you won't be the last. And there are 4 things you need to do to get over this insecurity. 1. Remember, they are in her past for a reason. She sees something in you that makes her choose you over all those other guys. She could still be trying to get with her ex right now and not even have dated you, but she's with YOU.
2. Stop researching the topics of how to get over this jealousy and understand that if you LET IT, it will go away on its own with time.
3. Stop snooping through her messages and Facebook inbox from before you guys got together. It's not worth it, this will only make you feel WORSE and fall deeper into your pool of anxiety. Next time you feel like snooping through her stuff, go for a walk, play video games, go to the gym, watch a funny movie, do ANYTHING else that will get your mind off of doing that.
The 4th and MOST important thing you have to start right away with no exceptions is STOP asking her about her past and all the sexual or nonsexual things she did with her exes or other men. This will make you seem insecure and needy, and the more you ask about it, the more likely of a chance she will leave you. Next time you feel like asking her something about that, bite your tongue and let it go. Talk about something which will make you guys happy, ask her how her day was or how the show was that she watched last night. I promise you will feel much better if you stop asking her questions about her past. And you must start doing these things right away, go cold turkey and stop snooping through her stuff, and asking her questions and researching this topic. Another note to remember: a girl may have done more sexual things with a past partner and done the craziest things, but that doesn't mean it's any better than what she does with you. Someone could have sex and not feel intimate at all, and that same person could kiss someone and feel more intimate than ever. *It doesn't depend on the actions , it depends on the person.* she's with you now and that means you're BETTER than ANY other guy she's had a past with, because she chose YOU. And it IS possible to get over this form of insecurity called "retroactive jealousy". You just have to go cold turkey on the things I mentioned above and quit asking about her past all together. She's YOUR girl now, remember that.
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