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In this video men's style, grooming, fitness, relationship and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of http://www.iamalpham.com http://www.aaronmarino.com http://www.peteandpedro.com, shares with you 10 tips for dealing with relationship insecurity. Relationships are hard enough without being super paranoid all the time. These 10 tips will help you handle your insecurity and allow you to focus on the amazing and beautiful person you have fallen in love with. Don't let your insecurities sabotage a good thing.
Insecurities. We all have them whether physical, finances, material, or other. Regardless, nothing can kill a potentially great situation than relationship insecurity. We all have insecurities but managing them is a key component for a happy, healthy, and successful relationship. Aaron Marino of alpha m. presents ten tips to overcome relationship insecurity.
1. Don't judge your current relationship based on past relationship - don't make the current pay for the deeds of the past.
2. Don't confusion imagination with reality - don't read into everything. The best way to squash this is to encourage open and honest conversations from the beginning, when things are 'good'.
Don't let your mind play tricks on you!
3. Stop trying to mind read
4. Once you ask, don't keep asking! - once you're there, the relationship is over from the persistent pestering.
5. Your relationship needs room to breathe - if you are constantly standing over top of the relationship, you'll smother it. You need to have your own things going on including outside interests and friends. You are individuals that came together.
6. Relationships aren't always roses and puppies - the new relationship is like walking on air. It doesn't last, however. You can't maintain that level of emotional intensity. You'll have ebbs and flows. Don't bail on the 1st sign of trouble! Keep nurturing and working, and it'll work itself out if it's supposed to.
7. Do not snoop! - if you reach that point, you'll never stop because you'll never trust them! You can misread something and turn it into a situation.
8. Go with your gut (instincts)
9. You are responsible for your happiness and only your happiness.
10. Relationships are supposed to feel good where you feel better when you're with this person.
What do you do when you suck at relationships but are really good in most other aspects of life?
I avidly persue leadership and self-development, and I consider myself a confident, healthy, and capable individual. I choked up the nerve to ask out this amazing girl, she said yes, and we’ve been dating for about a month.
But I am surprisingly insecure about how I am doing. It’s like I lose my confidence when I think about how our relationship is. We bounce really well off of each other, I’ve known her for like 10 years so we’re close friends, but like yesterday I sent her a message and she hasn’t responded yet and I’ve been worried sick about it, despite knowing it doesn’t really matter.
Our interactions are fun and awesome most times, we have a great time and it’s obvious she does like me back, but my mind just keeps persuing the idea that it won’t work. I keep trying to read her mind and second guess what I do.
I’ve watched lots of videos and read articles and such, but nothing seems to really be helping me fix this.
I’m insecure, I just can’t help being suspicious, I lack trust I just can’t believe that he wants to be with me. We started off on shady terms but now we’re supposed to be together, but I can’t tell the difference between what’s fake in his behaviour and when it’s real.
What about finding sex videos with exes on his phone 😪😳 from a year ago that he claims he doesn’t remember having! He was more mad about me deleting some of them than me finding them...... how should i feel? He let me know he deleted everything and i want proof but i want these trust issues to stop.
I've been getting these insecure feelings after feeling judged about some sexual experience I have, being introduced to fetlife and watching all the guys like her pictures she posts (their not explicit nude pics), and guys she friend requests, and one time she had to talk to her abusive ex about fixing a computer (I was there monitoring, idk why but I wish I haven't). I HATE IT. I hate feeling insecure. I love being the funny, charismatic and mind free guy I use to be. I hate thinking she is cheating on. I don't want to be that paranoid partner in the relationship. I want to be open minded and try not to think the worst case scenarios out of everything. I have talked to my gf about how I feel and my only fear and she seemed understanding and helpful. But I fear she'll leave me cause I've exposed my "insecurities" and "weakness". I hate feeling like this! I just hate it!
You only feel insecure when ones partner makes you feel that way. If your partner values you and tries to make you happy and truly loves you then there would be no insecurities in the relationship. These are facts and the honest truth .
My german mentor once told me the secret to happiness in a relationship and its only two words "Be honest". Most of the times people are insecure because they think their partner is hiding stuffs like they do, another reason would be the history of their relationship. Being honest includes talking about your insecurities. I hope this helps. Overthinking has become a serious mental disease and its killing people in many different ways. Grow up and face the world believe in yourself and stop overthinking. LOVE is BEAUTIFUL especial when it's true not this IG love of today.
I wanted to help my ex girlfriend with her insecurity. She was always jealous of me watching porn and accused me of cheating when I went out with my guy friends multiple times.she would even get jealous if I went with family and
when id go with friends she would repeatedly call me until i picked up. I was so sad and didn't want to give her up but she broke up with me because she didn't want of work on her insecurities. We were together for almost 3 years and after the first week of our break up (it's been two weeks) she already had a new boyfriend... Was I wrong.. I wanted to help her.. I feel bad.. I miss her alot. Anybody's advice would be helpful.
When I really want to be someone’s friend or be in a relationship with someone, I get so insecure that I feel like I’m gonna do something or say something to that person that will make them hate me. I don’t know why I’m like this. I feel like I’m the only one that’s like this, please tell me if you do this too...
im terrified that ive gone too far... yes i have snooped and i feel like shit for it. i trust, i love her, i dont want to lose her, i want to be better. How can i start to repair myself for the better so i can be the man i want to be for her
This video is old but if you have true suspicions that she might be cheating how do you find out without snooping? And what if she lies when you ask her, where do you go from there? Especially if you might have caught her in something before
If I have been doing this all recently because of stress, does that mean it's doomed and over. I'm actively going to change it and make things better! But I won't see him to this weekend. Just don't want to give up and it be over already
DAMN RIGHT STOP MIND READING! ONE OF THE TOP 10 EXAMPLES OF COGNITIVE DISTORTIONS aka TWISTED THINKING: FORTUNE TELLING/MIND READING! LOOK IT UP PEOPLE AND BECOME AWARE OF OUR OWN TWISTED THOUGHT PATTERNS IN NEED OF "CBT" COGNITIVE BEHAVIORAL THERAPY, TO RETRAIN YOUR BRAIN TO HEALTHY THOUGHT PROCESSES.
The way you explain things is perfect, and the humour you use to do it makes me laugh at myself for how silly I’ve been thinking. Bit hard when your partner feels like the best thing that’s ever happened to you, but when it’s so good you start thinking of what can go wrong. This video helped me out so much. Thank you
yo i have a question
So basically I knew this girl for like a month and we were such good friends and then we fell in love and we ,,hooked up" but i realised that its so awkward in the relationship, we weren't talking that much and when we had to kiss, hug or anything else it was so awkward i would wanna fucking die
Do you guys have any advice about this Im really desperate
My boyfriend’s instagram is still brimming with old, doting posts of/about his exes. It makes me uncomfortable, but I’d never ask him to take it down. I don’t know. :(
I try not to look at them, but it makes my heart fucking wrench.
I have definitely snooped. Last one caused my divorce. Of course, she was cheating with her ex and there were pictures, but that means there was a much deeper issues. Im very insecure in relationships now. Im having a really hard time with it. Idk how to trust people now with Facebook and texting...cheating is too easy
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